End of Bidulph

Kind of a let-down, actually—horrible things keep happening, and then finally they stop. Sidney stays alive for a while, I think, I can't remember. (Orlando Faulkland completely loses his mind, which is really very entertaining, and Sidney seems to finally find him an acceptable suitor at that point, because she marries him when he says he'll kill himself if she doesn't. She finally stops agonizing about things, just says she'll do it. (Her BROTHER does agonize, and says it'll look bad if Sidney goes off with Orlando right after the wedding; she should wait a while first.) But then he kills himself anyway because he's discovered that his wife who he thought he'd shot dead with her lover wasn't actually dead, just the lover, and so he was kind of a bigamist. So it was good, all in all, that Sidney HADN'T run off with him, even though it means that Sidney and Faulkland never have sex with each other. Sad face.)

Then I read Kathleen M. Oliver's article in SEL, "Frances Sheridan's Faulkland, the Silenced, Emasculated Male" (http://www.jstor.org/stable/4625090 ). Oliver does a nice job examining how Faulkland is feminized in the novel—he's excessive, he falls in love too easily, he stays in love too long, he has a tendency to drink too much and play cards too long and lets himself get manipulated by women like Mrs. Gerrarde, Miss Burchell, and (of course) Sidney and Lady Bidulph. Oliver is responding to critics like Spacks, who have contrasted Faulkland's 'activeness' with Sidney's passivity (Faulkland, after all, gets rid of Mrs. Gerrarde as Mr. Arnold's mistress by kidnapping her and marrying her to his servant in France); Oliver says Faulkland is much more subjugated within structures of feminine power than other people have seemed to find him. Then she does something interesting where she talks about how Faulkland is Continental and Feminized, and Sidney (Sir Philip is her obvious namesake, although Spacks ties her to Lady Mary Wroth, and the Countess of Pembroke, and whatever) is English and Masculine. So HOW is Sidney MASCULINE? This would have been a really interesting way to look at the novel (Sidney not so much the victim but the victimized spokesperson of patriarchy), and I wish Oliver had gone there more. I LIKE novels in which women are men, and men are women (like how Captain Wentworth is a mother figure for Anne Elliot in Persuasion).

Persuasion—the beginning and the end

Here's what Jane Austen's Persuasion is about:

Girl—smart, sensible, aristocratic, loving—marries silly, pretty aristocrat with a gambling problem. They have three daughters and then she dies. Middle daughter is the only one who inherited her character. Best friend looks out for middle daughter (because widower is completely incapable of being a good patriarch), but fails when daughter falls in love with a sea-captain. She loves him, in part, because he reminds her of her dead mother. They want to marry, but best friend thinks it's a bad idea and convinces widower-father to also disagree.

Eight years pass. Middle daughter learns to think for herself; refuses to marry eldest son of local squire, although best friend was in favor; youngest daughter marries him instead. Youngest and eldest daughters both never quite grew up, but seem not to feel the loss of their mother as middle daughter does.

Middle daughter gets older and—she thinks—uglier. She tries mothering her father and sisters, but ends up mostly being abused by them in subtle ways instead. Father becomes too poor to support the country estate, and ends up renting it out to the sister and brother-in-law of middle daughter's old suitor. Older sister and father take off for Bath; middle daughter stays with her mother's best friend and then her younger sister for a couple months.

Old suitor comes to visit his sister; seems to be courting one of youngest daughters' sisters-in-law. Middle daughter can't breathe when they're in the same room together. Her nephew falls out of a tree but isn't hurt; she mothers him because his mother won't, and the nursemaid is also irresponsible. She thinks her old suitor has forgotten her, but hears him perhaps alluding to her in his conversations with one of the women he's courting. Great anxiety and self-criticism and awkwardness ensues.

They go on a group trip to the seashore to visit his old Navy friends. She talks about Byron and Scott with his injured friend; sister-in-law jumps from a wall and hits her head; she's okay, but during her long convalescence, the in-laws and the Navy friends become close. Middle daughter observes all kinds of motherliness on the part of those families, is praised indirectly by old suitor for being a good care-giver herself. Extremely pleased.

Old suitor ends up not marrying either one of the girls, who are both otherwise affianced. He and she must admit to themselves that they're still in love; awkwardness and anxiety again ensue; they hardly speak to each other. He suspects she's going to marry her cousin who's also in Bath; she is pleased at the cousin's flirtation, but disapproves of his character. Father and older sister reveal themselves to be superficial children; mother's best friend's influence reaches an all-time low as she almost disappears into other concerns in Bath society. Middle daughter hangs out a lot with an old school friend (slightly older than herself) who is now ill and poor but had been a great comfort to her when they were young—now middle daughter comforts the friend. Suitor's sister and brother-in-law (the tenants) also come to Bath and prove acceptable parent-substitutes to middle daughter, who begins to identify with what she sees as their more sensible, compassionate bourgeois worldview. Her younger sister's mother-in-law also proves a strong source of comfort and approval.

She and old suitor are accidentally forced to speak to each other in various situations; finally he blurts out that he's afraid she's in love with her cousin, and that he loves her; she tells him she has no intentions of marrying that man, and that she's loved him since before they broke off their first engagement, but that she feels it was her duty to take her mother's best friend's advice then. (Now, though, he's quite rich—there will be no objections this time.) They marry.